Many parents today are searching for the “secret” to successful parenting. In Parenting According to God’s Promises: Raising Children in the Covenant of Grace, Joel R. Beeke reveals a hard-to-hear truth: There is no secret. When it comes to giving children what they need most—renewed hearts that trust Christ for the forgiveness of their sins—parents are powerless. When children come to the Lord, it is only by God’s grace.
While it is true that parents are powerless to save their children, they can still have hope, because God has promised to provide all the needs of those who are His and to bless them and their families. By relying on these great promises, parents can raise their children “in the discipline and admonition of the Lord,” with the confidence that He will bring them to faith.
This book is not just a parenting manual. It puts the responsibilities of parenting into perspective by leading mothers and fathers to rely less on their abilities and more on the God who forms all children from the womb.
Author
Joel R. Beeke, Ph.D., Westminster Seminary, is chair and professor of systematic theology and homiletics at Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary. He is pastor of Heritage Reformed Congregation in Grand Rapids, Michigan, and editorial director of Reformation Heritage Books.
Table of Contents
Preface
Introduction: Raising Children with Unwavering Hope
Part One: Covenant Parenting
1 Covenant Encouragement
2 Covenant Children
3 Raising Children by Faith
4 The Covenant Promise
5 Bringing Children to Christ
Part Two: Parenting as Prophets, Priests, and Kings
6 Our Responsibility as Parents
7 Teaching Our Children as Prophets
8 What Should We Teach Our Children?
9 Training Our Children for Godly Living
10 Serving as Home Priests
10 Parenting According to God’s Promises
11 Being Compassionate to Our Children
12 Establishing a Loving Reign as Kings
13 Preventive Discipline
14 Corrective Discipline
Part Three: Practical Advice for Raising Children
15 The Contribution of Our Puritan Ancestors
16 Teaching Children to Be Godly
17 Teaching Children to Listen
18 Taming Children’s Tongue
19 Managing Sibling Relationships
Part Four: Practical Advice for Helping Teens
20 Helping Teens Discern God’s Will
21 Helping Teens Resist Negative Peer Pressure
22 Helping Teens Manage Anger
Conclusion: To the Thousandth Generation
Appendix 1: Cotton Mather’s Parenting Resolutions
Appendix 2: Children in the Church
Study Questions
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